Hi keeptrying,
Like you, I’ve noticed similarities between different diets. I wasn’t able to get on with the 5:2 diet for some reason but you’ve had success with it. Since we are all different I guess we have to experiment to get the thing that works best for each of us. Like you, I don’t calorie count (I obsess about too many other things!).
To go back to your original post, and the question “why do we sabotage the good ways of eating” – there must be many reasons but to me there are two main culprits:
1a) Boredom – sometimes I tire of the foodstuffs I’m eating. While I enjoy trying out new foods, only some will stay in my cupboards. Others I won’t replace when I’ve finished them up. Variety is the key to maintaining interest, even if that does mean the occasional non-BSD-approved foodstuff. (And I mean occasional, not regular!)
1b) Boredom again – if I keep myself occupied, distracting myself from thinking about food, then I’m OK. Knitting while watching the TV doesn’t provide enough distraction – it has to be something physical, be it gardening or housework for me, or a long walk. A busy day at work, while exhausting, can help me stick to the right path.
2) Worry/Stress, illness etc – when my mind is clear and I’m feeling good, I can weather any storm. When I’m tired, ill, anxious about something I don’t handle things well and I can go off the rails (as I did this Bank Hol weekend). The rules that I follow to keep me on the BSD path can go out of the window in the blink of an eye.
It concerns me when I go off the rails but I also know from my own experience (and from others on this forum) that, ultimately, the solution lies with me. It’s me who has shovelled crap down my throat, it’s me who does my shopping. And it’s only me who can make me lose the weight I need to lose. It’s not just the food I consume, I need to address these boredom/stress issues, then maybe I will stop being my own saboteur.
There’s an awful lot of “me” and “I” in the above – I think I’ve just delivered a lecture to myself. π
Take care,
Rose