My point, which I may not have expressed too clearly, was we cannot expect medical professionals to “make a judgment”, we expect them culturally to do the right thing and that can only be based on proper assessments. I understand the point about frustration, and my post was not meant to be a sweeping criticism of this forum, but more a call to be a bit more understanding.
Sunshine girl – you remind me of my experience when I worked in Paris. On the first day I arrived I had to go for a test to certify that I was ‘apte’ to work. The test included an audio test in French where you had to follow instructions recorded on a crackly old tape in French. I failed that section miserably as I had no idea what the person was saying. Still passed the test.
I went for the old Certificat d’Aptitude Physique to join the local rugby club. The doctor took one look at me, spent five minutes talking about that year’s England-France game, signed the form and charged me FF300 – showing my age!.
You have to love French bureaucracy.