Welcome Boo!
This is absolutely the best group to be a part of. We are real. We admit to our struggles and share in all its unvarnished glory!!!

Personally, I feel I have made friends for life.

I hope you find the support on here helpful. We are all on this journey and carry each other when times get tough.

L 😘

Happy Birthday oracle Liz! 🎁🎉🇨🇦🍒

So, today was officially my weigh day and unbelievably it’s a total 9lbs off in the last week. Realistically I know it will slow down now, but in reality I only have 3 weeks left of my 8. I shall extend for a week to take Galway into account. Have worked out that my tdee to maintain is 1550 calories, so if I shall try to stick to that while away and will be honest with you all while away as will still have wifi!

So, my goal is set at 135 lbs or 9 stone 9lbs. I’m not going to fix on that for sure but I can’t imagine weighing less and looking well…
Will have to rely on you ladies to support and guide me.

Been thinking a bit about Iain Holland and the opportunity he threw away to be part of this. It was me who reported him to the moderator but I can’t help thinking about him and hoping he is ok. Guess I’m just a softie at heart…

Have a good Sunday everyone

L xxx

Hi
I’d love to join this thread. I find it really inspiring. I’m fighting many of the same battles and love the fighting spirit and humour shown on here.
I’m 5’ 1” and 162.8llbs (So basically a cube with feet ) Have a couple of health issues. Would like to get the weight down for health reasons. Have lost 20lbs over the last year by on and off BSD. Would like to lose a lot more.
Thanks
All the best to everyone.

Well, here we are at the end of Week 4, so time for an update. Actually I’ve got nothing to report; no weight loss, no reduction in waist size. I lost 8 lbs in week 1, 2 lbs in week 3 and nothing since. Sticking to the recipes, watching portion sizes, no cheating on snacks. So disappointing. This is not the “rapid weight loss” I was expecting! However, we are enjoying the food, and discovering new flavours from the recipes. Generally feeling more energised, so we’ll stick at it.

Thanks for your comment guys…the girly night wine intake was difficult to measure as bottles were being emptied into glasses by others ! I think I need to “park” last week and stick with the plan. Your support here is much appreciated 💋

Hey CanadaLiz,

HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!

Love
Mary xxx

Mouley, don’t despair, it’s so common to have ( multiple!) plateaus. Weight loss, as I have agonisingly slowly discovered, is not linear and if you type ‘plateau’ into the right hand top search box you’ll get a post from just about everyone who’s been on the bsd! Nothing at all to worry about, it’s actually normal. ( see ‘whoosh fairy’ for comforting news)

UURGH ! I’m at a plateau and not sure what else I can do. I’ve stayed the same for the last 2 weeks. I wouldn’t mind but in the last 2 weeks I’ve stuck to low carbs and under 800 cals, given up booze and been going to the gym 4 times a week. Rubbish!! Has any one else ever had plateaus? x

Hi Angie TW many thanks for your reply. I read the book before starting and have used some of the recipes which are very tasty. I had been low carbing for a year and lost 2 stone. My weight plateaued so I decided to try the BSD. I am a bit apprehensive about using pulses and beans incase they make my sugars high? I am fasting between about 6pm until around mid day and just having 2 meals. I exercise regularly too but have been doing that for years anyway and it has never helped with weight loss. I think I may need to go back on the medication if I can’t get the sugars down again. Are most of you diabetic too? Has anyone subscribed to the online diet on here? Thanks again for your support.

Hi Snoop. I also totally understand. I am a very infrequent fb user except for work as I have “pages” that I need to promote in my work and its also a way to keep up with my ever-growing and allover the place (geographically) family and friends. I even tried to make a separate profile for the forum group but the technology eluded me, so I’ve bitten the bullet and joined!! This forum is the first time I’ve ever “come out” on anything like this and its been a good thing, though even now, I have to breathe deep before revealing anything personal…you’re all an inspiration!
anyhow, for those of you interested, there are pics of me on my profile (not the old shed roof…there’s a story in that for another time)…..the third photo in (I’m the one in glasses…and one of my gorgeous sons is in the pic) is about how I look of late (and you’ll see why I’m here!!)…though the face is a little less round already!!

Anyhoo dear ones, hope you’ve had (or most of you still having…(mine is coming to a close…)) a great weekend.
I’m off to the kitchen to decide what next wonderful BSD friendly meal it’s going to be tonight (and the promise of a hot bath to distract me from wishing-for-wine)

Yes, I agree – calories burned are a very difficult thing to be sure about other than on some sort of specific machine with a measuring facility. One of the things that is still prevalent (and which I believed until reading the books by Mosley and Taubes) was that weight reduction and – hopefully – blood sugar reduction was simply a case of eating less and moving more so that more calories were burnt than were consumed. It’s not that simple – Taubes, in particular demonstrates study after study that has identified instances of whole communities on the verge of malnutrition yet with obese individuals. To say that it’s not how much you eat but what you eat is a partial truth, but the ‘eat less, move more’ mantra, if taken at face value, ignores the very important question of just what one does eat.
Mike

Like anything regarding the burning of calories, accuracy must be problematic. Must say I was surprised. Just checked another site that proposes 272 calories per hour generally. My figures came from a site that asked for height, age and weight so gave me some confidence. Seems the general consensus is that we need to disregard calories burned whilst working and therefore it becomes immaterial anyway.

I’d never heard of kombucha before reading this thread so looked it up. Doesn’t seem to have a very good press! If you doubt me, look at:-
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kombucha

It’s a well researched article.
Mike

That sounds like very energetic painting! I use a treadmill – manual, the equivalent of walking briskly up a 1 in 10 gradient – for 20 minutes five days a week and that only burns around 300 calories an hour. Are you sure of that figure?
Mike

I think the easy answer is to ask yourself what you do like to eat, cut out what is high in carbs and see what is left. I have had success (rather to my surprise) with the diet without bothering with any of the recipes in the book, but I do eat salads. Most days my food intake is 100g of full fat yoghurt with 10g of walnuts and 10g of chia seeds for breakfast. Lunch a chicken or ham salad – but that is outwith your likes, so we’ll forget it – then in the evening a variety of meals, but all simple stuff – poached egg and ham, steak and mushrooms, salmon, either smoked or fresh with mushrooms, or leaves, omelette with ham or cheese or mushrooms or smoked salmon, chicken fried in olive oil, again with leaves – but in all of these sort of choices you don’t have to have leaves if you don’t like them – the important thing is to check the nutritional content of what you are eating and minimise carbs, making up with fats and proteins. Oh, for a snack – wafer thin ham or chicken, Camembert (best ‘numbers’ that I can see amongst the many cheeses that I like),are my ‘go-to’ snacks.
Hope that helps
Mike

Thank you for your insight. I am doing this for both reasons and I have decided not to consumer any kombucha until my sugar and weight is in control. Thank you.

Really keen to get started but having read the book I don’t like any of the recipes, literally not one, I’m really struggling to find anything I can eat as I know I will fail if I try to make myself eat things I don’t like, any tips for someone who doesn’t eat veg or salad please? Thank you 😁

Hi fba welcome to the group. Firstly I would recommend buying the recipe book as that really helps and also read the diet book from cover to covet. You have to be dedicated ss its only for 8 weeks. Dont have any bread, pasts, cakes or sugar not even at weekends.
Experiment with food and add pulses or beans which give you protein and are also filling. I was at a friends house and they invited me to stay for a takeaway. They were having Chinese and we all looked through the menu and were unsure on which to choose for me as I wanted low carbs and sugar amd no MSG as I am allergic to it. Do you know what we did in the end? We went to Sainsburys and I ended up doing a fab salad for them with smoked salmon and prawns and finished off with strawberr6and full fat Greek yoghourt. Really filling and healthy.
Look at eating fish and chicken.
Good luck, keep on posting and exercising.

I would definitely agree that if anything you should increase the percentage of protein. I went for 37g fat, 40g carbs and 77g Protein as my exercise levels were quite high for the 800 calories fasts.

Hi this is my first time posting on here. Only recently joined the forum. Like you I have started the 8 week BSD. Have been on it for 4weeks. Good weight loss the first week but very little since. Blood sugar has been excellent and my nurse advised me to try stopping the Dapagliflozin. I stopped taking it Monday – first two days I had superb readings but since then they are higher than they should be! Feeling hungry a lot and getting a bit disheartened. Any advice would be much appreciated. You all seem to be doing so well.

Hi Folks

Way back when i started this stream (almost a year !!) and had no idea what was ahead

I have reached my goal and am now in the VERY TRICKY world of maintenance !!

However, I notice people talking about fasting and thought i should comment

I have stuck rigidly to the 8-week blood sugar diet recipe book

i have eaten every day. I have not fasted. ( yes i like wine, cider , beer, and er yes even cake.)

and have fitted these in around the allocated calories…

(I have also had 7 day holidays where i didnt give a HOOT what i ate !!)

remember its a daily AVERAGE of 800 not precise.

so yes i have cut to 600 and been up to 1000 (So maybe this is fasting!!) but have never worried as looking back through my diary of what i eat and my weight 7 days later (IT MADE NO DIFFERENCE)

so looking back so far, best advice I can give is STICK TO THE DIET

the best advice given to me when i started was by my Dr who simply said

‘Remember. its only you who puts the food in your mouth!’

Hope this helps
now 55andfatnomore

P.S Mary well done! Especially even with the small bottle, that’s willpower as they seem so much safer!
Lee, ouch! I agree, no more alterations for a while!.,

Thanks Mary and Lee! I do feel proud and am kind of looking forward to each night now where I say no, not needed. I know some social situations will come up soon but hope to be like mixnmatch and just have one or two without triggering a deluge! (well done mixnmatch, btw, that’s encouraging!)

Count me in too sunshine-girl. I’m trying for 19kg by end September which is birthday and holiday combined. On my second day and approaching 2kg loss. Mind you been painting for 9 hours today so must have a part to play. Liking the Keep on Keeping On. It’s the title of a Northern Soul record by Nolan Porter. The dancing could propel the weight loss. Check it out on You Tube

According to US recommendations you should increase protein consumption when doing significant amounts of exercise. I had a similar splurge of activity a while back, but forgot to eat more, and spent the next two days regretting it as I was listless and cranky. Oddly though, I wasn’t particularly hungry!

Thanks Mixnmatch, in a way glad to hear that, especially the burning fat. Makes things less complicated which I like

A previous post of mine clearly didn’t post, when I was at the airport. Here it is… edited since we have now arrived in Mallorca. At Heathrow between flights I managed to find Pret a Manger Italian chicken salad which was a much better option than the sandwiches the family had. Hoping to do lots of exercise next 2 weeks and stick with the principles and not come back heavier. Those are my aims. We avoid the touristy bits mainly (my OH is from here ) but we have 1 week in middle of the country (good walks) and 1 week by the coast (the promenade is always nice and flat for good early morning runs ). The swimming pool might be an option if I am early enough for a serious swim rather than dodging splashers. Have decided to take the stairs to the 5th floor each time and forgo the lift. Damage limitation…

If it helps just think of it as a planned non-fast day, 5:2 style. So the next day is just straight back into fast days, that always worked for me.

If you can, just regard it as a bonus, it will speed up your adaptation to burning fat, and if you can’t face that don’t try to eat back it all, but just a hundred calories or so.

Lol…FFBB,

I think it was just intended that we could share photos on FB. My profile picture is actually my embroidery, so I posted a picture to enable you all to put a face to the name. My brothers aren’t even friends with me on FB. I am very careful what I post. I love your rules FFBB.

Mary xxx

I am the same on fb which is why I don`t have a profile pic. My wall is just game crap.

This is my safe zone, even more so than Fat Secret.

First rule of the BSD forum….don`t talk about the BSD forum.

Second rule is…..what is said on the BSD forum stays on the BSD forum!

Too dramatic?

Hi all, started the 800 yesterday and going alright at the moment. I’ve been painting outside my house today for 9 hours and have just discovered that the work burns 320 calories an hour for my height, age and weight. Does this enter calculations. I’ve eaten 600 calories so far. Must say feeling hungry.
higgy22

Thank you, for your kind support. It’s good to get back in control🙋🙋🙋

4 weeks today since (re)starting diet
15 pounds down. I have just cracked under 200 pounds. So pleased.
Struggled on my days off work this week. I think the twinnings fruit infusions trigger my cravings so have stopped them.
Putting curry powder in my vegies to give a bit more spice and flavour.
Worried about my daughter’s upcoming 18th birthday and our family tradition of eating to excess. Even the thought of ‘just one slice’ of birthday cake makes me nervous that i will repeat past experiences and not be able to stop. We are booked in to a nice restaurant and i have studied the menu. I can make good choices but it’s the old patterns I am worried about. I have never done moderation. If I could do it , I would not be a fat T2 now. I think I may be making a big deal out of it but it’s on my mind. Hopefully my family won’t make a big deal about me not wanting to stuff myself. As it is I think the meal itself will go over 800cals. Then there’s cake…….sigh… I will accept one day off and not be hard on myself for that. Its just my ability to get straight back to the diet the next day. I have another week to prepare and plan. This is my first ‘test’. Wish I had more faith in myself.
It’s always easy for me to say no to the first chip or peanut or chocolate cake. It’s the second third fourth etc that I have enormous trouble with.
I am stoked with the 15 pound loss. 50 to go.

Makes sense snoop, i worry about maintenance big time. We have gone away on rd trip to inlaws. Things have quieted down which is good. Were also in middle of buying new place, together with work dead lines and my obsessions has made it all round stressful time for all. We have a cruise in early oct which both we are looking forward to and both need rnr to unwind. Think i will skip weigh in this week, trips away my food choices arent as good. Have a good one all, and never bloody give up!

Totally understand Snoop. I’m so open on here and have put nowt about it on fb.

I suspect Liz as owner can make it a closed group, so no way of cross leaks. I have to admit I would prefer that too!

But stay with us here. It is our safe haven
L 😘

Thanks, Mary. Apologies for the self-absorption.

As you were, guys!

Well Snoop, you have to do what is right for you. No-one here will take offence if you unfriend us from Facebook.
Mary xxx

No reason why I would post anything inflammatory on FB. But as you say, this is our safe zone. Oddly, I’ve managed to keep the same name across all my online activities. No idea how, as you’d think it would be an obvious one for lots of people to choose. So if anyone can find me here, they’ll find me everywhere! I think I have autistic tendencies and am ridiculously recluse now. It’s become a way of life and I find it very difficult to open up. This thread is quite a revelation for me.

Thanks everyone my bsd book came today so going to have a good read when I finally come to a stand still this evening will keep you all posted hopefully it will be positive lol fingers crossed I really don’t want to fail at this I need to get healthy

Snoop, I understand what you mean, but can you just not post anything inflammatory on fb? I think the only thing you will miss out on is photos anyway. This is our safe zone.

Take care,
Mary xxx

Guys, I joined you on Facebook. I thought it was a matter of being honest as to who I am . But in retrospect, I can be more honest if I stick to my alter ego only. I have work colleagues and family who are my friends on FB and I don’t want any leakage between here and the real world. I’m honest here and it wouldn’t do me any good whatsoever professionally. So I’m going to unfriend, if I can.

Let’s hope so Mary
Xxx

Bloke41, if she’s telling you your priorities aren’t right and she’s sick of people telling her how well you’re doing, it’s possibly because she’s jealous you’ve managed to make this huge change in your life and she hasn’t. If she hasn’t been able to keep pace with you, 56 kg isn’t just weight loss. She might be feeling you’ve left her behind.

One thing you’ll have to address is what happens when you reach your target. I’m no therapist, and these aren’t really issues for a public forum, but how you approach maintenance is going to be an issue. It’s not just a matter of adding calories or changing your exercise routine. It’ll be about how you drop back into a way of family life that has continued almost in your absence while you’ve been off doing your walks or eating differently. And how you do that without causing ructions or going backwards in terms of your weight and health.

Maybe I’m wrong. Maybe I shouldn’t post this. Either way, best wishes.

Hey greenjanet, good to see you posting again. I empathise with you in your family upsets. There are times when all we can do is just keep putting one foot in front of the other…… good wishes to you x

Good to see you back and in good form topcac. It seems you’re getting right back on track.

As Butterlover said, it’s cold and wet here, and goodness I’m craving “stodge” -white bread, (none in the house) crumpets (n i t h) mashed potatoes (not doing it) spaghetti bollanaise (had the bol without the spag). I need to stay distracted. …..

Lee, perhaps you should hold off having any more clothes altered. You are obviously doing this right.

Good luck in Galway. My mother was from Dublin and I am well aware of Irish hospitality! I went once, didn’t drink any alcohol and still came back half a stone heavier, just from having Tea. In my Aunts house, Tea meant the whole table was laid with sandwiches, cakes and biscuits, and I was not allowed to say no.

Even if you do gain, you have the weapons to lose it again.

Love Mary
xxx

Mary, where have you been hiding? You are really shining this week. Couldn’t be happier for you at your loss and your supermarket willpower!!

Yes, the dresses were very tailored and lined. One cost me £250 and the other £180 when I purchased them, so £30 to upcycle was a good investment! He’s done an amazing job to be fair. Not his fault I had a whoosh week. It was a total 7.8lbs off this week! I just didn’t think I would do so well, so quickly on bsd…

I suspect I will gain or at the very best, stay the same after my trip back to Galway next weekend. My cousins are taking me to the Connaught senior football final, so it will be a tricky time! I’m hoping I can offer to drive…🤣😳

So, with that in mind I suspect the black and white dress will work for my cousin’s funeral on the 13th. But I do have a lovely one on order too (I think shopping is my new addiction!)

L xx

Nice fail Lee. ☺😉

Wow Lee, Congratulations!

I feel very smug at the moment. I called Joe in to witness the scales and he said yes, you are under 18 stone. I did it twice just to make sure. I have just got back from the supermarket…I looked at the wine aisle and thought….no I don’t need to go there. Then I saw some tiny bottles of wine for £2, just enough for one glass and I thought….no…I don’t need that.

£70 to take in two dresses seems a lot…are they tailored?

Thank you for your support.

Mary xxx