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  • posted by  shalimar on Starting 10th October 2016
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    AJAZE, Maharani Kitten, Disney Nut …. HUGS πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

    Feeling proud of myself … threw my wine down the kitchen sink.. Temptation removed.

    I see many of us have some goals before Christmas. I took a hint from someone on our forums to write down my goals, my why, and an interim date and the goal i want to reach … they said write it on a piece of paper and put it in my wallet … and i did. Very handy when i’m out of the house at a restaurant … i just read it before i order off a menu.

    As Gail Vaz Oxlade, a very nice Canadian lady who advises on financial matters on her various TV shows …. if you don’t set a goal, a “how” to achieve your goal, and a time limit …. it is just a “dream” or a “wish”. She’s a very smart woman.

    Anyway …. HUGS to everyoe!!

  • posted by  LindaA on My eight weeks….
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    Thank you Lucia, you are so rightπŸ˜€πŸ‘
    I now feel that I am at my ideal weight and I’m not intentionally trying to lose more, I’m just playing around with carbs and calories to find to ideal level do that I can maintain.
    I still read your posts every day as that is a huge motivator for me not to go back to the way I was before, so thank you again.
    Keep going, you won’t know yourself by Christmas.
    Cheers
    Linda

  • posted by  Lucia on My eight weeks….
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    Hi shal I mar.

    I don’t say
    Won’t
    I say
    It will be…….
    I know as a fact that I will be lighter this Christmas than last
    Fact I am fitter this Christmas than last.

    So
    Please
    Give me a line that starts with
    I will be……….

    Beacause where this is a WILL there is a WAY. πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€
    Love Lucia
    Xxxxx

  • posted by  AJAZE on Starting 10th October 2016
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    I’m also starting today. I will be cooking for myself. I need to lose weight, about 10 kg and had been trying very hard but not succeeding with a high exercise, healthy food diet. I hope this works better for me. I like the idea of it being over and done with quickly! Today I skipped breakfast and had a lunch of 100grams of smoked salmon, 100grams green beans and a 1/4 cup of brown rice. I had some walnuts for afternoon tea (5) and am planning to eat a later dinner than usual with more salmon and vegetables. Seems doable today. I just need to be able to do it every day!!!!! I hope I can. I feel like the focus and control is helpful and provides good structure to this diet. And I am keeping a food/exercise diary! Good luck everyone. Talk soon.

  • posted by  Lucia on My eight weeks….
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    Hi pop pet ini,

    Many thanks.

    I think I am wired wrong.
    Everyone can Zumba, I can’t.

    I have to split my body into two, through the bully button.

    I learn the steps for my legs.
    I learn the movements for my arms.
    I then put the two together.

    I have a wii thingy.
    When I switch it on, I have a dining room chair near me, so if I need to sit down, I do.

    I LOVE the pause button, it’s my favourite, it means, hang on a minute until I catch my breath or untangle my legs, the off I go again,.
    NO ONE Has told me, and I don’t think they would dare… to tell me it has to be done in one portion.

    While you are sitting on the settee or chair, are you waving your arms,
    Wriggling your toes
    Pulling in your tummy,
    Squeezing your bum cheeks together
    These all all movements in muscles we don’t often use, but we are still sitting down.
    But
    Listen to your body.
    It will tell you if it needs a time out, or to be left alone.

    If I can do it, you can. I am a big old bird, you are probably a little fluffy chick,
    Keep positive,
    Keep it fun,
    Keep just wriggling around

    Love Lucia
    Xxxx

  • posted by  Disney Nut on 1st October Starters Support Group
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    Thanks Shalimar…I think the smidgen is probably due to a lack of fibre. Need to find something to add to my food that helps with that.
    What is everyone doing in that respect? Do you have similar issues?

  • posted by  shalimar on My eight weeks….
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    Ah Lucia …. lovely words

    Won’t it be nice to review how lovely our bodies are by Christmas!!
    Won’t it be nice to have our bodies move the way we want them too
    Won’t it be nice to feel healthy
    Won’t it be nice to feel energetic
    Won’t it be nice to say “No thank you, I don’t want any more right now”.

    Won’t it be nice to hear someone say …. Are your sure you haven’t lost too much weight??
    Won’t it be nice to reply How nice of you to notice … but i haven’t quite reached my ultimate goal yet?

    HUGS πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

  • posted by  Disney Nut on Starting 10th October 2016
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    Good Morning…I have cheekily asked to join your facebook group if that is okay?
    I have started last Thursday so am 6 days ahead of your 10/10 start but so far very motivated!

    My ultimate aim is to get rid of 30kg but the first hurdle is going to be a holiday in December and of course Christmas. One day at a time until then and maybe I am in the zone by the time we fly to Florida so Disney snacks won’t tempt me…

  • posted by  Billingebabe on Positive Thoughts Thread Anyone?
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    I too am retired and finding it is the best time of my life. I also live in a lovely place, on the edge of the South Downs National Park. My town is called Arundel. We have the second biggest castle in .England, complete with Duke; a lovely river, a RC Cathdral, a 10 day community, arts and culture festival. Oh and we are 3 miles from the coast. My exercise is walking our border terrier and growing veg and fruit on my allotment.

    A decent pension makes a difference. I am so pleased that I paid extra contributions into my pot.

  • posted by  Lucia on My eight weeks….
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    Hi Linda a
    For years everyone has bullied me with love.
    Oh just have a sandwich
    Oh just have that last cake
    You haven’t eaten for five whole minutes, let me make you something.
    I have drawn the line.
    —————-

    I know my own body
    Better than anyone else.
    I still don’t feel as if I am there yet, so I am carrying on a little longer.
    I am reviewing my weight at Christmas.
    I will know if there is a bit more blubber to lose or if I am too skinny.
    You will know in your heart if you should stick or twist.
    I need to twist more ( is that poker ?)
    There are charts out there with height and healthy weight ranges. Use them.
    Get into the healthy BMW range.

    Keep yourself healthy and active for YOU.

    Sorry to pass these comments but if I hadn’t of listened to the above people, I would be in a size 12 UK now.

    Love Lucia
    Xxx

  • posted by  Maharani kitten on Starting 10th October 2016
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    Also starting today – feels like the first day of school! Recently diagnosed Type 2 at the same age as my mum -51 – but absolutely no symptoms, discovered during routine blood test. I’m a lifelong dieter, teetotal, always the ‘fatty’ in an incredibly slim family, all of whom eat like horses and drink like fish – not fair! Have followed low carb diet for 8 years and maintained BMI under 27 for 7 years, but since starting medication have gained 18lbs in 12 weeks, and all around my middle, a place I’ve never stored fat in the past. Hopeful that this 8 weeks gets me back on track and feeling more in control. At the moment it feels like my body is the boss of me – time for a change of management! Good luck to everyone starting today.

  • posted by  jonoworth on Starting 10th October 2016
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    Good luck! I started yesterday and these forums are worth their weight in gold. I’ve tried to lose weight loads of times but these are really keeping me motivated.
    Let us know how you get on!

  • posted by  ElizabethB56 on Exercise and food
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    I have just started the BSD and like you I cycle to work about 3 times a week and I and do fairly strenuous rides at weekends. I did run out of energy yesterday after one steep hill and 16 miles so turned around and came home. I think we need to accept that for the first 8 weeks we cannot ride as we normally do. I plan to do what I can because the weight loss is more important. I think that performance will improve as the weight drops off. When you look at how we should exercise putting in fast sprints for a few minutes is important then just relax and enjoy the scenery. When my weight is back where it should be I will increase my calories but probably not by too many working it out as I go.

  • posted by  shalimar on What to expect?
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    jonoworth

    my latest tip is …. don’t buy wine!!!!

    Hope to see your posts in the threads!! HUGS πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

  • posted by  jonoworth on What to expect?
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    That’s brilliant!! Thank you I’ve got the books and read them, but it’s always good to talk to people who are doing something.
    Thanks for the advice, it’s greatly appreciated.

  • posted by  Disney Nut on 1st October Starters Support Group
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    Happy Thanksgiving CallMeDeb and Shalimar..hope you have a lovely day.

    My scales went up 0.1kg today but onwards and downwards…looking forward to my week 1 result tomorrow morning.

    Have a good week everyone.

  • posted by  shalimar on Starting 10th October 2016
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    Natalie …. just take something for the headache if you can keep it down.

    I ate badly today …. actually i was sick of the unexpected sugar … and i still ate it …. i was very stoopid. But hopefully i learned from it.
    Sometimes i think every bloomin thing in life is a lesson …. and i am a slow learner!!

    It really is bad for our poor bodies when we don’t eat healthy … or even just too much … our lovely wonderful bodies are just trying their best.
    HUGS

    Christel / shalimar

  • posted by  Natalie on Starting 10th October 2016
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    It is late afternoon of day one for me and I have a nasty headache. It’s a bit earlier than I was expecting any withdrawal symptoms but maybe that means they’ll be over sooner? I’ve eaten very poorly the past two weeks so I guess this is a bit of a shock to my body. My tastebuds were very disappointed by tea with no sugar after lunch (oddly enough my morning cup with no sugar is fine, I never want sweet things until later in the day). I’m drinking plenty and including salt so it isn’t that. Just the lack of easily-converted-to-sugar carbs.

  • posted by  shalimar on Newbie needing advise
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    Menopause … i have been in surgical menopause for approx. 2 decades. I’m still taking a very small dose of estrogen. Although i did try not to take it …. a brand called Estroven was somewhat helpful.

    I am retired now … but i did work shift work at times … mostly midnights in a donut shoppe ……. which actually turned me off of donuts … πŸ™‚ too much !!!

    If you have a staff room with fridge you are golden … you can bring anything in plastic containers… Were i worked last we had a fridge with freezer (staff pooled their money to get it) as well as a microwave and coffee maker.

    Our hospital here has a cafeteria with salads and stuff …. so if it’s not open overnight you can buy BSD friendly stuff.

    I would definitely bring a large plastic container with assorted delicous veggies … maybe with some hummus dip.

    Can of tuna or salmon or … with can opener.

    If you like coffee with cream … i would have some on midnigh shifts …. but stop drinking it halfway through a midnight shift so i wouldn’t be wired when trying to sleep.

    Drink your favorite tea … bring your own if you have access to hot water …. or bring a large thermus or 2 or 3.

    I would save my carbs for the just BEFORE the shift … MIDDLE of shift ….. and then stop the carbs and coffee so i could sleep when i got off shift.

    ANYONE?????

  • posted by  Shimmerling on Starting 10th October 2016
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    Allawah,
    That sounds like a great plan! I am very similar when it comes to the big ‘D’ word. I hope that this new way of thinking helps you to keep that success going!
    For me I’m embracing the idea of a diet as though it were a medication prescribed by my doctor. So if I don’t take my medicine (healthy med food) I will get sicker. I think, however, if that doesn’t work for me I might try your technique!

    All the best

  • posted by  shalimar on Starting 10th October 2016
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    RIGHT ON Allawah24 πŸ™‚ HUGS

    Guilt and beating yourself up for not being perfect …. is counter-productive!!!

    Being kind to others is wonderful … but it has to start with being kind to yourself.

  • posted by  Allawah24 on Starting 10th October 2016
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    I started getting myself into a ‘good place’ psychologically this last week and really got started today. In the past when I have gone on a diet, I beat myself up when I fall by the wayside, however a couple of years ago I really stuck to a new eating plan and lost about 20 kilos. Like some of you who posted the last couple of days for various reasons I went back to my bad habits and what do you know I’m back to square one.
    What I have going for me now is a good basis for long term success, these are a few points I have learned (to state the obvious)
    1. I am not on a diet; I want to be healthier, eat well and a by product is loose weight (very much needed)
    2. As I’m not dieting if I stray I can go back to the eating plan more easily, hopefully next meal but next
    day if need be.
    What I’m trying to say is I’m hoping to remove the guilt and the idea of ‘starting again’.
    I hope to read many great ideas from you and wish you all the success for the changes you have made to how you eat.

  • posted by  shalimar on Starting 10th October 2016
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    LOL …. i don’t even know how to send a friend request …. but i see i am part of the Facebook group … all is well.

    I really need how to figure out Facebook!!

    THANKS

  • posted by  Jecka99 on Newbie needing advise
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    Hi all
    I am going through menopause and work night duty. I plan to start on the 24 oct 2016 ( want blood tests and to write diet plan first). I was wondering if there is anyone else who works nursing hours and rotates through night and days and can provide any advice? I done the 5;2 and lost weight but then menopause happened πŸ™
    Starting again as i need a new life!

  • posted by  Shimmerling on Starting 10th October 2016
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    I have created a Facebook group for us to use, if you are interested? I find it is an easier way to continue conversations with people on an individual level.
    Join me here:
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/1468420283184807/

    I blogged about starting the BSD, if you are interested, its here: http://shimmerandglow.blogspot.com/2016/10/day-one.html

    Oh wow, there are so many of us starting today! I have tried to respond to you each individually below.

    Lesleyp
    I’m sorry to hear that. I’m very impressed with your previous achievements, and I’m sure you can do it again! Great work!

    Strictly Come Dieting
    You’ve got this! It sounds like you are all organised! Happy birthday, too!

    kirsty
    I hope you have some success finding seeds and things! Here in Australia they are all in the health food aisle of the supermarket.

    Frog
    Thanks for the info on eggs! I will probably eat a lot of eggs over the course of this 8 weeks! I can imagine my cat will also be happy about the increase in fish in the house! πŸ˜€

    Bluemoon
    I’m starting to think it is mostly about the planning, too. Once you have all of your ingredients and foods prepped its much easier to cope!

    Ren65
    All the best for this leg of your journey! I too have many kilos to lose. I plan on doing the Fast 800 for eight weeks, then over the festive period going on a slightly less strict med diet (but I will take Christmas and New Years off) I don’t know how I would go sticking on the 800 for the whole of my 30+ kgs.

    Tapatch
    How good are eggs? πŸ˜€

    Busybee
    That sounds like a great plan! No excuses, just numbers dropping! You’ve got this!

    MrsM
    I’m happy to chat if you need an ear! I think it might be a tricky diet, but certainly not impossible. You can do it!

    Angiebabe
    WOW! Good job, you! That is a massive loss, you are a champ! I’m sure you will be able to keep going. It sounds like you are doing an amazing job!

    shalimar
    Of course you are welcome to join us! I hope that soon you are recovered from your ills! Your food suggestions look delicious, thank you!

    Natalie
    It sounds like you are all set, I’m impressed! I pee a lot, too! Haha! I like to think of it as one of the ways I am flushing the fat out of my system, so each time I ‘go’ I try and have a secret celebration! It might sound a bit odd, but it works for me. And your day sounds delicious! We’ve got this! πŸ˜€
    Haha, you are funny with your stats! I can relate to being an apple! I wear my taste buds around the middle!

    amyoz
    I am also from Victoria! Small world!
    Even though you have a small amount to lose you will still be confronted with the same issues those of us with more to lose have, so don’t dismiss your struggles because of that. I wish you all the best!

    MissusO
    I have the same hope, too. All the best for your journey, you’ve got this!

    Wishbone
    Hello fellow Australian! Oh wow, it sounds like you have done a massive job in the past! Maybe this bout of the BSD will bring you to your goal? Fingers crossed!

    Purple
    10% is a good goal! I from what I read, that is achievable with the 8 week program! Keep us posted?

    I hope I managed to mention everyone! This is going to be an awesome group! We are going to do awesome things, I can feel it! πŸ˜€

  • hey dan , have you discovered the solution ?
    i do around 80k each Saturday and used to do the carb pre load also use the elecrolyte drinks en route .
    there doesnt seem to be any reserves that i can tap into.
    i was under the impression that the energy stores laid down the day before are the ones that are used ?
    . Im keen to hear more.

  • posted by  shalimar on Starting 10th October 2016
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    Well … Natalie … this is probably because i’m retired …. but if i sleep in … I am fine with a cup of coffee with cream for a couple of hours …. that means i only need lunch, snacks, and supper.

    But most often i do 3 meals … and my veggie plastic container of snack veggies.

    My main problem has been constipation …. and getting in enough liquids without making the liquids coffee with cream.

    I am using diet drinks …. but with meals … i figure i’m having a few carbs … so maybe my body won’t mind a diet drink (diet drinks make the body expect sugar/fuel … so if i throw a couple of grams of veggie carbs it’s way it won’t be disappointed …. sometimes i talk to my body out loud *patting my belly … i always give it compliments for doing it’s best …. i am also promising my poor feet some poundage relief. I don’t do this in front of people though πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

  • posted by  shalimar on Positive Thoughts Thread Anyone?
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    that’s wonderful Billingebabe …. Vancouver is a lovely part of Canada.

    I live in Northwestern Ontario …. Thunder Bay a relatively small city … but VERY good if you are outdoorsey at all …. surrounded by forests and lakes and right on Lake Superior … we even have Mount McKay for skiing and LOTS of hockey in the winter … and boating and cottaging, fishing and camping!! And it’s only 1/2 hour drive to the USA border …. lots of people here even just go for drive to the border … for a drink and some fun~! It can be very lovely …. i can go for a 1 kilometer walk and be in a forested area … deer are abundant as are skunks … and we do have the occasional bear. It’s a nice place to live …. and it’s a short plane ride to Toronto … but a 2 day drive!~ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

    One of these days i am going to visit the UK and Europe!!! I’d love to make it for the Highland Games!!! I am not well off financially but i don’t live large or cultivate expensive tastes …. but i have enough retirement money to have a nice trip or 2 every so often.
    I am really quite lucky!! And i do appreciate that!!

  • posted by  Natalie on Starting 10th October 2016
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    Oh that sounds delicious – but naughty! I’m used to snacking in the afternoon so I’m feeling a bit peckish – not actually hungry because I had a lovely lunch. It’s just habit. I’ll get used to three healthy meals. But I’m still a bit disbelieving of those who say they are now happy with two meals a day or even one! Not going to happen.

  • posted by  shalimar on What's your next mini goal?
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    You know …. i could finish my “box o wine” and then i won’t be tempted again. Cause i am waaay better at drinking it if it is cold in the fridge …. than buying it. I can resist buying any more!!

    Hmmmmmmm ….. after all the Blue Jays baseball team won their series …. and today is Thanksgiving Day in Canada ….. and i definitely give thanks … Blue Jays one step away from the World Series ….

    I wonder how much wine is left in that box????????????????????????????????

    πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

    okay …. i’ve had 2 cups of wine already!!

  • posted by  Billingebabe on Positive Thoughts Thread Anyone?
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    Hi Shalimar
    I come over to Canada most years to see my lovely 55 year old step daughter – from my previous marriage. She currently lives in Vancouver but used to live in Toronto. Both great cities in different ways.

  • posted by  shalimar on Positive Thoughts Thread Anyone?
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    Billingebabe

    Edinburgh ….. always wanted to go there …. have never been across the pond!

    Good on you …. my middle name is procrastination … so polish your halo!!

    Gold star for hubby!!

    πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ just watching post game coverage!!

    Back to 800 for me on Tuesday …. i am giving myself a day leeway!!

  • posted by  Billingebabe on Positive Thoughts Thread Anyone?
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    Greetings from the UK. Have a great Thanksgiving Day Shalimar.
    Not a very well organised weekend as far as 800 calories go but full of positivity.

    So my 3 positive thoughts to cover the weekend are:
    Fabulous day out on Saturday in Edinburgh with my book club girlfriends. And walked 16 kilometres according to my friends app. Equals over 20,000 steps!

    Lovely husband who pressure hosed the terrace whilst I was inspecting the Royal Yacht Brittania and walking!

    On Sunday completed a bid to obtain a grant for my voluntary organisation. Procrastination had set in but I know it is a good piece of work.

    Back to 800 today!

  • posted by  shalimar on Positive Thoughts Thread Anyone?
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    i am so very very very very very happy!!!!!

    Blue Jays win their series
    I reboot the 800 calorie on Tuesday
    Holiday tomorrow … going to go for a walk … cold/sinus much better!!!

  • posted by  shalimar on Positive Thoughts Thread Anyone?
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    Well its less than an hour away to Thanksgiving Day in Canada …. THANKS FOR THE THANKSGIVING DAY PRESENT TORONTO BLUE JAYS!!! On to meet the winner of Boston Red Sox and Cleveland Indians. ….. and on to the World Series!!

    I don’t think i need anything more to be grateful for!!!

  • posted by  ruthdownunder on Daniel's 8 Week Dieting Diary
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    Daniel, a good and blessed year to you from an old Aussie goyim. Glad to see you are still working towards that new wardrobe.

    I know you are fasting for your soul, but it seems it does cause good physical things too, like reduced insulin and cell repair among other things

  • posted by  shalimar on 5:2 works for me
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    Getting over my sinus problems …. even cough is better.

    Going to reboot and start the Fast 800 plan again. Going to keep at it for the whole 8 weeks …. then i may deliberately go back on 5:2 or 4:3 plan until after Christmas.

  • posted by  shalimar on Starting 10th October 2016
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    Natalie …. i am 5 ft. 6 in. ….. and i want to be 5 ft. 8 in. …… mind you i don’t want to be 26 again unless i can know then what i know now!! Of course …. i would like the figure and weight that i had when i was 16 …. i would be very very happy to have that figure at age 67!

    Apple, Pear …. i am just full of a whole lot of ….. stuff!

    Geez … i just added the calories and carbs for : taco chips, salsa, full fat sour cream and full fat cheddar cheese …… i would have been ok if i hadn’t had a big huge bag of kettle popcorn!!

  • posted by  Natalie on Starting 10th October 2016
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    I forgot to post my stats earlier. I’m 46, 154cm tall (5′ 1/2″) and 83.8kg this morning. I would like to be 26, 168cm (5′ 6″) and 55kg! I think I’ll just work on the weight for now. Actually I’m aiming for 58kg, the top of “normal” BMI for my height, so I have 26kg to lose. Most of it from my belly. I used to be an hourglass, now I’m an apple. Full of carbs!

  • posted by  CallMeDeb on 1st October Starters Support Group
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    I think πŸ’­ I am the only Canadian on here, but I wish everyone a Happy Thanksgiving πŸ¦ƒ anyway.

    Dad and I went for an epic drive today to look at the beautiful fall colours up north. 7 hours driving total! Long day, but really worth it.

    It’s late, so I will do a full check in tomorrow, but… weigh in day will not be denied! I am down 7.6 lbs! This is more than I lost the first two weeks combined last time, so to say I’m pleased is an understatement!

    Tomorrow is a statutory holiday, so no work, but definitely walks. I have to make up for sitting on my butt all day today!

    Cheers for now,

    Deb