Hi sunshine-girl
Guess it must be Monday now!!! Hope you’re feeling a lot ‘lighter and brighter’ in yourself especially after you have enjoyed that lovely bottle of white!
I read this thread with tears in my eyes. Just seemed to hit home. I guess quite a few of us here are in out third quarter century! We all have baggage to carry and whilst we probably have lots of good things in our lives we also have burdens of various weights (no pun intended !)
My story is pretty short … 9 years ago I contracted septicaemia, lost my hip, was in a wheelchair for 18 months, had a hip replacement but can now only walk with crutches. Ok, so the good news is I survived, I have some mobility, even if it is vastly diminished, and I have a good life generally. But, as with the rest of us, l’m only human and do get really frustrated at times with being dependent on others, to a certain degree, and not being able to do all the things I want to.
Sunshine-girl we all beat ourselves up because we’re not perfect …. do you really know anyone that is!!!!
I think we should allow ourselves the odd ‘blue’ times because without them we can’t appreciate the good things in our lives .
Why are we here????
All of us want to lose weight. Lots of us want to improve our diabetes/pre diabetes and come off medication. It’s a chicken and egg situation …. we need to lose weight to improve our health but that involves a whole new way of thinking and doing. We are non of us perfect, even if we think we are, and so after a lifetime, for many of us, of yo-yo dieting trying every quick fix under the sun we have eventually arrived here !
We know this makes sense, we know it works but we will all fall by the wayside at times. I think the secret I’d to get back on the horse as quickly as possible when you fall off and no more beating ourselves up for the odd lapse …. after all we are only human.
Thank you all for being part of this great community and being there to listen when times get rough.
Sorry to ramble but I do feel much better now that I’ve ‘ put pen to paper’ and I hope you do to sunshine-girl!!