It’s interesting how attitudes can change.
Like you, Tapatch, I was thinking about “dowdy old dear/mutton dressed as lamb” thing. I could hear my late mother whispering in my ear that I shouldn’t wear certain styles/colours, “at my age”. When I commented on that on a different thread on the forum someone who works in fashion answered, saying that they are really trying to get away from that and encourage “older” women to go into shops they’ve not tried before – she particularly mentioned Zara. Where I live the choice of clothes shops is limited (and they are only small branches) but I have become more adventurous.
Most of my clothes used to come from BHS, with some from M&S. I really don’t like many of the styles or colours in the shops at the moment, butbtried a lovely red dress from M&S. trouble was, I’m “petite” but the dress wasn’t. Just didn’t fit properly!
I don’t think I’ll ever wear leggings again, but happy to have discovered jeggings. Part of me thinks they’re the modern day corset! A gentle reminder when eating.
as a church leader I have to dress a certain way most of the time so have become unaccustomed to having much else in my wardrobe, but that is changing. From navy and white, there are now colours. And jeans, and jeggings. And prettier undies.
I still sometimes struggle with thinking “I’m not worth it” when I see something slightly more expensive, but am working on that too.
Tapatch – they were surprised, to put it mildly π I can wear heels about 2-2.5″ for most of the day. Anything higher than that is a struggle. And they’re not stilettos! Too many hills and cobbles near my home for that. Walking through that room last week I was reminded how I used to feel walking through a plane or crowded train to go to the toilet, down that narrow aisle, bumping into people all the way. It was embarrassing. But walking through that room I didn’t care who saw me, and I was striding out. Head held high. π
For all us “re-cycled teenagers” out there – we need to be more adventurous. I’m learning π