Of course you’re right V, we do all need to find that sweet spot, but I think part of the problem is lots of us have the mindset that if we aren’t “eating the cream cake” like everyone else, we’re somehow being deprived. Whereas, what we’re doing is prioritising taking care of ourselves.
Essentially, as all of us who have been on this path for a long time know, this is not a diet it’s a lifestyle. And yes, taking an occasional mindful step off the path is fine, but it’s a mistake to make that a new habit by looking for excuses to do so. And I have certainly been guilty of that, otherwise I wouldn’t be looking at the need to rid myself of almost a stone gained back.
Like an alcoholic can always find an excuse for a drink, it’s all too easy to fall into the trap of frequently finding an excuse for something carby … it’s a leaving party, a birthday, Easter, Christmas, special weekend, etc. One can’t afford to do that consistently and expect to lose/maintain weight and stay healthy and unfortunately it’s been the route I’ve been treading for the best part of a year. So I need to change my mindset if I want to achieve my goal.
This post is essentially just a stream of consciousness and in no way a criticism of how others decide to approach things to reach their goals. We’re all different, have different goals, priorities, lifestyle needs and so have each made our own adaptions to suit and none of them are wrong, as long as we’re happy they meet our needs and will help us achieve our goals.