Hi everyone. I finally have a few minutes to log on after helping a friend whose teenage son is struggling with severe anxiety. It meant a trip to A and E late last night and a return home by 2am .It’s an ongoing situation and worrying .
I hear lots of comments here about struggles and difficulties ? Don’t worry folks, it’s going to be alright.
Riccoh, I am on my second journal . I prefer it to the apps as I like writing meal plans, recipes, progress etc . I used to see regular weekly discards back in 2018/2019 , nothing like that now . I think I am trying to come to an acceptance of where I am and if I drop a few more kilos then that’s great but I accept like SG that it is a slow process now. I am still dealing with my excesses.
I tell you something, post Brexit import duties put paid to my Montezuma Absolute Black order from the Uk. After placing the order ( albeit for 50€ ) I received a message from the delivery company that import duties of 31.50€ were due !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Montezuma were very understanding when I said I wanted to cancel . They , like lots of other small companies are lost in all the new customs regulations . Anyway ,it was with a heavy heart that I refused delivery of the parcel yesterday and it is being returned to the Uk and I can be reimbursed .
I cannot justify buying Absolute Black at that price so I will do without .
Well done Nhatha on reaching your goals on the scales and the health markers ! You have a wonderful , supportive wife and we are glad to have helped a bit too . All the very best as you move forward .
Good to see you articfox . We miss you when you don’t check in . You have a lot of challenges there too but you always find a way through .
Hi Dawn ! Good to see you too . Yes, it’s tough when you can’t quite find the motivation to stick to this way of eating 100 % . It always helps me to have a reboot fast day if I feel I have succumbed to some sort of excess. Just remember it takes time to rid yourself of habitual behaviour but it is peaceful when you get there ! I never have days off, ie eating high carb as I used to , just eating too much of even the healthy stuff . I think you are right to plan and really get your head around not deviating from that for a time . Short term targets and you could surprise yourself to find you have developed new habits .
Great results RedRooster ! 5:2 would be a good plan as you say .
Don’t get discouraged RubyG , just keep going with your hubby .
Hi Kiltgirl/Elaine . Good to hear you are inspired and loving the food and recipes, that’s great . If you ever feel a bit wobbly, come and talk to us . We are definitely your tribe ! Believe in yourself and your staying power !
How are you doing Alipetunia/Alison ? Have you tried anything else to ‘get things moving ? We had a recent discussion about constipation remedies . Get straight back on plan Alison, we are with you !
SG, we never worry about you because you are very focused and know exactly what to do . You have managed your diabetes masterfully . What’s wrong with a bit of morning TV slobbery ? We had such a lovely sunny day today , didn’t we ? It really lifts the spirits and got me started on a bit of Spring cleaning , dusting and cleaning my collection of Mariage Frères tea tins now that hubby has finished freshening up the kitchen . It was good to have the windows wide open to get rid of the smell of paint .
Talking of hubbies cooking . Mine does frequently , but we often end up having different meals as he likes his red meat and I favour fish . We adapt somehow. So glad your friend is getting better.
You probably know by now that both sunshinegirl and myself live in France so don’t get us started on the shambolic French vaccination programme !!
I totally understand what you are saying Lauren ! It is tough , very tough but I am daring to be optimistic . Spring is on its way and that will bring a sense of renewal and hope , but yes it is ok not to feel ok . None of us is perfect but I think those of us that have been following this WOE for some time now have managed to instill long term positive changes . It does take time and inevitably involves some trial and error . We have all slipped up, had blips whatever but we must remember our achievements not any slight deviations . It’s ok . Sunny is right . We should not allow this WOE to stress us.
I agree Elaine. Junk food never makes us feel good . I see it as abusing our bodies with processed chemicals, additives and other rubbish .
Dig in workingfromthefridge . You will get there . I remember (peri) menopause was no fun . Hope your checks help you to mange the symptoms.
I love your honest posts Julz and the way you are constantly learning about yourself . Whatever happens you always find a way back . I agree totally with your vision of fighting the circumstances, not the WOE . We are going to come out of this stronger !
Just think everyone. I bet you can find several things you have achieved since we were thrust into this horrendous situation. Focus on what we have achieved, however small .
Welcome JoseJose ! Yes, we can get through this . All the very best with your target, you will do it ! Stay with us ! I never eat before 12pm, often later these days too .
Hi JaxWilson and a very warm welcome to you ! You are in the right place . We have other Aussies on the forum . MerryMelba is from Melbourne too . I can’t wait to visit your city ( my two sons are in Australia ) but we only got to Tasmania and Cairns during our last visit in 2018 . My son was living in Melbourne but escaped lockdown to join his brother in Cairns .
Hopefully your recent short term lockdown was effective ? France is still avoiding another lockdown and nothing is likely to change for another couple of weeks but the variants are causing concern.
I love the sense of solidarity on the thread . We are all in this together and we are STILL here . We are all here to offer support and a boost when we need it . Just shout if you are struggling xx
Sorry for the long post but I wanted to catch up with everyone .
I will be checking on those who haven’t yet shown up this week 😉