Thank you Theodora, yes it has been a bit of a whirlwind ! We went to France for a week together and I managed to stick to the BSD food wise, but the wine was very nice and I had too much of it ! I didn’t gain any weight, but I haven’t lost any either. I keep losing and gaining the same pound.
Thanks so much everyone, with your inspiration I will get back on track and lose the rest. I have adjusted my goal, but I’m going to carry on afterwards to get about 5lbs under it for wriggle room, as you have done Theodora. I have sold all my big clothes on eBay so no going back now !
One thing I’m finding a bit uncomfortable. I met my partner when I was already much slimmer. I have lost 10 lbs since meeting him, but was obviously much bigger before we met. He knows I’m losing weight, but he’s never asked how big I was before. The other day we met up with some of my friends who haven’t seen me for ages and they were going on about how much I had lost, and that I used to be twice the size. I felt embarrassed as my partner certainly would not have found me attractive then ! I have explained to him about the way of life and that I will always follow it now, but my old body shape is not an image I want him to have in his head ! I have hidden all photos from that era as well so he can’t see them ! (I gained the weight from 2010 onwards so photos before that are ok!)