Flick – it’s inspiring to see your results, well done and thanks for sharing. Particularly great result on the BMI, wow! Isn’t it cool seeing it go down like that? What you explained about stalling was of particular interest…isn’t it funny how our bodies have their own little patterns like that? Good on you for scheduling a self-care pedicure, a lovely treat to yourself, hope you enjoyed.
Verano – I imagine your guests were secretly impressed by your choice of olives rather than crisps in the social situation. Maybe you inspired them to look at their own habits differently too, who knows? In situations like that it can really be something as simple as people needing to see someone else taking the lead first and making healthier choices as it can provide ‘role models’ or give the permission that others have been waiting for to follow suit. I like your commitment skills there, because social situations can be so tricky. And as for the luminous yellow fat thing, if you’ve got a strong stomach then perhaps you may be interested to watch some YouTube vids on surgery or even an autopsy?…of course I absolutely appreciate this isn’t to everyone’s taste and may be seen as a bit grim…but it really can be a lightning bolt of realisation on what fat really does to our insides (it was for me, anyway!). If you’re a visual person like I am then this can be super effective!
KrysiaD – your rewards sound truly lovely. Like you say, living without worry is a reward all of its own so hooray for your progress. Dodging injections of lucentis, woop woop! I’ve been experimenting with some neuro-linguistic programming techniques recently, to get my brain ‘anchors’ set up so that (let’s say) I do really well at something, my reward is to try a new fruit or veg I’ve never had before, or I allow myself to go to a freestyle dance class and have a wiggle and boing about. Usually these classes cost £8 so are a bit pricey, but if I’ve worked hard then I’m allowed to go and bust some shapes in celebration. Making health, movement and fun the rewards has really worked for me. I like your thing about having a browse around the shops without the Husband…you can really focus on getting stuck in that way and have time for you :)
Esnecca – I really enjoyed the wisdom in your post, and you are so right when you point out that ‘you need a little joy in your life” is a unskillful and ill-considered thing to say to someone over their food choices. Surely FAR more joy comes from having a light, energy-packed, health-radiating body and mind, which performs beautifully and efficiently. I really hope the people who say that to you eventually have the realisations to overcome this old way of thinking and begin to gain the health benefits for themselves, too, as well as being able to encourage others more positively. You’re so right about the danger of clichés.
Jackie M – such great news on your new personal low of 60.9kg, you must be thrilled 🙂
Mariet – you have hit the nail on the head as far as I’m concerned regarding body shape changing despite the scales not showing much loss. Does it feel nice having lost your midriff and padding? Do you keep patting it and smiling? Hope so. I’m in a similar situation to you. Every day this week I have alternated between 57.4kg and 56.6kg, back and forth, back and forth despite being super focused and staying on the regime. Despite that, my physique is changing without a doubt…my Latimuss Dorsi are getting smaller when I pinch them, as is my bum. Plus my beloved pair or perfectly fitting black jeans are now slightly too baggy, which is a shame in one way but a grin-inducer in another. We both appear to be on the right path so let’s keep going eh?