Hi YBR,
also jumping in to offer some suggestions which may or may not be useful.
You mention a gradual move – my experience is that this doesn’t work for me, and for hubby trying to reverse a pre-diabetes diagnosis, going in hard and fast of 800 cals and under 50g carbs for 8 weeks was the shock treatment he needed. He has since maintained a “normal” HbA1c (34 at last test) for more than 3 years now, by keeping carbs low. He has never been on meds for diabetes. Yes, he has regained a small amount of the weight he lost, but it is what he is eating and when that affects his blood sugars. I think you have realised that T2 diabetes is not only a fat person’s issue.
You also mention money saving options – as arcticfox has mentioned, intermittent fasting or eating in only an 8 hour window will help in that you will naturally be eating less. Also, Aldi and Lidl both do Greek-style full fat yoghurts, and other plain, natural yoghurts available may have slightly higher carbs but are still significantly less than flavoured yoghurts. You also don’t have to add berries to yoghurt, you can eat it plain, or add milled linseed (again, Aldi), a teaspoon of peanut butter (Aldi do a peanut butter with no palm oil), some pumpkin seeds or other seed mix (Aldi again, there is a theme here).
As much as I love ham or cheese salad, for me it is not an evening meal, especially if you are also having that for lunch. Calorie for calorie, a homemade vegetable soup, either with some tinned chickpeas or lentils, or the addition of some meat-based protein (or even a boiled egg on the side) always leaves me more satisfied than a salad of the same calorific value. I often batch-make a large pot of soup on a Sunday evening – this week’s was 2 small onions, 2 small carrots, a few sticks of celery, some chopped garlic, 2 tins of tomatoes (less than 40p per can in Aldi) and a few handfuls of dried lentils and some bacon bits for flavour. I know that the tinned tomatoes and carrots contain carbs, but over the ~8 portions of soup it will not be massive. MyFitnessPal or similar apps can calculate the actual values for you.
I tend to snack if/when bored, and late afternoon or early evening before hubby gets home and we eat supper can be really hard, and the only thing that works for me is distraction, like putting on some laundry or doing a small task that needs doing. Willpower alone does not work 🙂 for me……….
Olive oil has increased in price massively, I agree, but a little goes a long way cost-wise. Avocado – cannot stand it myself, so I don’t bother.
Snacks and having carbage in the house – maybe reframe these packets of whatever as empty calories, not contributing to your overall health, and actively detracting from it, at the same time as consuming your grocery budget and making it harder to buy the life-sustaining food you want to eat for your health.
Stay with us here and hope you manage to find your way.