First, I’d like to wish all the women on the forum, a peaceful and positive International Women’s Day. Be sure to take a little time for yourself today.
Secondly, Margaret I’m sorry you are feeling demoralised and disheartened. It must be frustrating to be waiting indefinitely for your surgery … really hope you get a date soon.
Please don’t waste time and effort reflecting on the weight gain. It’s time to face forward and refocus. Whilst moving more is of course helpful, as you know, exercise is not absolutely necessary for dropping the pounds using the BSD approach.
If recording everything you are consuming at the moment feels too hard, just do your best to make good choices. Stay away from the high carb stuff as much as possible. I find if I’m tempted, reading the carb value on nutrition labels, is often enough to make me think again. It also helps if I simply ask myself if I really need to eat something …. am I genuinely hungry or just bored or seeking comfort?
Maybe a similar approach would help you. Perhaps ask yourself what has previously worked for you and see how you can once again put the into practise.
Anyway, think we’ve all known periods of struggle with this WoE, so can empathise with you. Take heart from the knowledge you already have the tools to achieve your goal, you just need to find a little courage to put them to use again. Lastly, remember we’re here to offer encouragement and support, you only need to give us a shout.
Have a good weekend everyone.