my experience over the years is that I over egg the amount of calories I think I have lost when excercising and the excercise stimulates my appetite , there is a NY journalist , Gary Taube I think, whose article I read from a link on one of the forums which asks how you would go about preparing for a lovely meal in the evening, you would cut back on what you eat and do a little excercise to stimulate your appetite- hmm sound familiar.
Excersie is good for your health, bone, heart and lungs and often mood so is important but I don’t use it to help me lose weight I use calorie counting for that.
I personally dislike gyms- the trauma of the female changing room, the skinnie Minnie’s in thongs , the side glance as you wiggle your body to edge up your snug Lycra pants , the fact they all seem no older than 25-Yuck. Then there’s the muscled blokes in the weight area doing weird movements with kettle bells which meant I never quite ventured into that area, I feared I might grow a beard as I absorbed the fug of testosterone. Sadly the menopause has got me there anyway despite by protestations.
I do a Zumba class in a church hall with no mirrors with a group of overweight mums and ladies of a certain age, it is funny, feels like you are dancing and only costs a fiver. I then do a High intensity training , HIT, DVD , Davina , if you are interested , in my front room. The dog sometimes joins in as does my five year old nephew , I could only do a bit of it at first but over time have really seen by muscle definition change. MM recommends HIT and it has worked for me , apparently it stimulates your mitochondria.