Definitely like the positive spin Californiagirl would like to give your forum id GH. I’ve often taken a pessimistic view on life, so purposely gave myself a more positive id – plus, I’ve always thought I should have been born somewhere sunny. Anyway, I think having a more positive ‘label’ definitely has an uplifting effect, so if you could bear it, swapping to GoodHeart could give you a boost and help you to see yourself in a more positive light.
My guess is most of us have made some dire decisions in life, which given the chance we might choose not to do again, but the secret is allowing forgiveness at some point, otherwise one wastes so much energy in negativity and holds off the possibility of a brighter future.