Hi there, my kids are older than yours (12 and 11) though I well remember younger mealtimes! I am not sure they do need the carbs, and currently am not giving my kids any at home, especially as there are SO MANY carbs everywhere else.
My daughter was/is a carb junky and I am now finding it harder to get her in good routines at nearly 13 than when she was 4 and I could just not give it to her. We regularly used to just have a protein/veg meal (thanks to my boy refusing to have ‘mixed together’ food so I would give them, for example, salmon/broccoli on a plate) and I just wish now I’d done more of that and not kept up with the pasta/jacket potato/whole meal bread thing as we all struggle with weight and am pretty sure genetics plays a part in not being able to process carbs efficiently. I think my boy is probably not a carb junky, as he eats when he is hungry and stops when he is full.
There was quite a lot of groaning at mealtimes (there still is) but I try to remember they are not on a reducing diet, so they have plenty of berries and cream/dark chocolate/nuts etc that they like. Trying to keep them away from all the ‘white’ stuff, though am still offering brown rice (partly because it’s not a favourite so I know they only eat that for hunger). Trying to avoid tropical fruit for them (they are mad for mango) and dried fruit but have apples and pears available for pudding.
Packed lunches though, am dreading next week. What to put in a packed lunch!?!